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Originally Posted by chilekat2
Being involved with a married man should never be justified. Men that have affairs on their wife's always promise they are getting a divorce, along with other promises of trust and a future of happiness. Hopefully you learned a lesson. Think of all of the emotional pain you both put his wife through, and his children will learn of this sooner or later.
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I don't see her as "justifying" anything, and she is going through enough pain, so I don't think she needs to "learn a lesson."
And you have no idea what kind of pain his wife is in or not...if their marriage really is over, she might be having an affair, too, because....
women (even with children) cheat on men as well. And they act and say the same things as men do.
This is not a female-only thing, and it always irritates me when women are seen a certain way for having an affair with a married man when married women do the
exact same thing.
I am sorry for the pain you are going through Dolly, and the situation is just really sad and unfortunate all around. Hugs to you.
