True, he's not a mind reader. But I'm sure it's not a new concept to him. I've read - and even heard from my T - that clients do this kind of thing often. I wonder if you could approach it in a way where you share that you are so confused and don't even know what you're really feeling and if he can help you better understand it based on his experience. Maybe he can put some suggestions out there and you can see what fits for you.