Sitting with your emotions can be a powerful thing. As painful as it sounds, she asked an important question. I'd imagine it was shame inducing which makes it so hard to manage.

I certainly understand the idea of feeling left out, especially because...well...you are. The session was about your fiance's feelings and issues.

I would have felt horrified and truly awful as well, and I probably would've left the room and felt incredibly shameful, angry, jealous and resentful.