Women get judged so harshly....weight, shape, clothes, hair...and in this case we are talking about by men. Um, most men I see around me are not Adonis. And a lot of them have extra weight around their midsection. Some are losing their hair, some are super hairy, some are really short, etc...but in general they are not judged like women are, AND they seem to need their very own Victoria Secret model.

What truly matters is your connection with someone and things like personality and sense of humor and can you depend on them and can they really listen to you and understand you. Someone who is not "perfect" physically can become amazingly attractive in an instant if they have that certain something and the two of you connect!