Ok now that I read this your reply to my post is oh so much clearer. The sexual harassment thing way outta line. This situation is tricky though. I think it was inappropriate for the teacher to join the children, however I know these comments fly between the teachers. However, though it was wrong of the teacher, I'm not sure making a stink about it would be in your son's best interest. I know it sounds hard but you should take your friend's advice. Teach your son that what he knows is true of himself is all that matters in this world. You will be setting him up in life with the strength and confidence to face adulthood that you were not.

Oh, and a mile for 5th graders as a requirement, see why I say the requirements are the bs that push teachers to the breaking point.