That's true. Perhaps start up another thread aimed at men, and ask them what qualities they like in a woman?

I think that you also should go easier on yourself. First of all, you're losing weight. That on it's own you should be proud of! And perhaps when you reach, I don't know, every half a stone or something you should treat yourself. A haircut, a facial, doing nails or something. Congratulate yourself and reward yourself? I bet it will make you feel better.

Then, when you look in the mirror and hate what you see, try and look for a good point there too. Say things like "yes, my bum is big, but its getting smaller. But look, I have pretty eyes" or hair, or face, or anything. Keep telling yourself that you are not just your weight - a lot more makes an person than just their weight. If you are kind and nice to people, celebrate that too! Please start looking at the good bits not just the bad bits as I bet there are plenty of them.