Thanks for all of your good advice. I think I didn't need the therapy in the first place. I was depressed before my brother passed it was just something she wanted to "home" in on.Do you not think that all the doctors therapists just want to "blame " something thats going on in your lives. Personally speaking many people would not be able to live without it and I commend that, but for me I think , I would not benefit from any more therapy.