Sorry I don't have the answer to your main question.

I just had to say that this here--- </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
Sometimes I feel like he's trying to lead me to some reaction and that I'm supposed to be responding in some preordained way unknown to me - but, good dog, when I get it right.


</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> I couldn't have said it better - it's just how I feel!!! Wish he would just let me read that mystery/invisible book where the correct responses seem to be-- so then I would be a "good dog" all the time!!