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Originally Posted by Antimatter
Thanks for the information! I have a question. I'm actually not focusing on my T, but am more focused on my past, and have actually felt some anger from the past that I didn't feel before but have made a connection. However, my T leaves for a month soon and I haven't felt the emotions totally. Instead, I have been focused on the past. Is this still transference? Is it a form of avoidance? I'm thinking that maybe I find the past abandonment pain to be safer than the unknown pain that may be caused by T leaving. I was just wondering if you or anyone could explain this. Thanks so much!
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Hello, Antimatter
I am far from an expert but it sounds like you have been focusing on your past experiences...perhaps because it is something that you need to explore? As far as your T leaving for a month...it could be that you are just not wanting to deal with that yet. You may want to ponder this a little more...really think about how your T going away makes you feel... I will tell you that my T has been gone for almost 2 weeks...I will see her a week from this coming Tuesday...it makes me feel anxious, like I don't want anything to happen where I wouldn't be able to go. I will say this...while your T is away...do things that make you feel good, keep busy..that is what I have been doing and it really helps!
