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Originally Posted by texascoco
But he didn't text me back. Over the period of time between then and March 11, when I sent him a goodbye message, I texted him often enough. He'd ignored me for a month and a half before, in August/September, and then texted me one day and said sorry and everything between us was cool, and he also PROMISED me a while ago that if he didn't want to be friends anymore he would TELL me so, instead of ignoring me and waiting for me to take the hint. Between xmas and March, I texted Yuriy often enough. As the weeks progressed without a response from him, my texts became longer, and more open and personal and emotional, and more free with making my unhappiness with him known and how he was being a jerk.
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When someone ignores me, I don't get up and arms about it for a while. I'm pretty light about it, at least I was for a while with Yuriy in this situation, and I was DEFINITELY light about it when he ignored me for a month and a half in August/September. Like I'll even if I'm texting him often, I would often try to not be too pushy about him getting back to me, although I was more upfront about it over Christmas. Usually I'll just say something silly or a joke and allude to how I'd like him to text me back, wouldn't that be great?, but not super obvious all the time, and sometimes not at all, and then I'll say "Have a great day!" and that is supposed to take the pressure off them for getting back to me right then and there. So it's not like I was texting him every hour or saying only saying "why aren't you texting me back why aren't you texting me back why aren't you texting me back," though I guess apparently it was still bad.