I warned my t ahead of time that I and my girlfriends would be invading "his" coffee shop one morning because the local radio station was doing a live show. He said he wasn't even aware of it. He could have been lying, or he could have had an early appointment, or he could have slept in, or the owner could have told him he'd be busy, or he could have left before we got there! I didn't give it much thought...