ADAM

U have had ur advice from the others...all pretty good...
ur story rings a bell to me....i cheated on my husband...in thought if not in deed.....twice....he caught me and he implodes and he is diagnosed with depression.
so u see y i am writing to u.

im not saying ur wife is right.....but i wont ***** about her either.. all i wanna say is...u shudnt feel guilty.

since our situation is the same....lemme tell u...that last night FINALLY my husband chose to speak rather than brush things under the carpet...he loves me...i love him....we dont want a diorce though....but there is this huge hurdle.....my cheating on him......and the fact that he shud learn to trust me again....doesnt help we have a long distance relationship....

but...dont beat urself up about something she did...it happenned not cuz u neglected her....it happ cuz it just did....

address the problem...PLEASE if u want to fix it...

communication is the key....

my husband and i have decided to take a break but not break up....by the end we will know where we stand....

dont let the wife guilt trip u....please.