Content, are you sure your T is actually planning to attend the event? From what you've said, it's not clear if she is?

I have no idea where my T hangs out! I live in a village halfway between a town and a city. The city is where I socialise. My T works in the town and lives somewhere around there I guess. I don't think we'd go to the same places but I have never seen him 'in the wild'. My husband and I go grocery shopping in the town though and I always hope to see my T. I think I want him to see me acting like an adult. He says he will only acknowledge me if I acknowledge him first as it's up to me, I think this is a client privacy thing.