Today is my daughters recital. I asked my dad on Friday to come and that my daughter would love to see my mom as well. My husband said why don't you just drive with us to my dad. He said well see. I emailed him and asked him to let me know today if he ( because i know that my mom is not by any means going to go) will be going and to let me know. He still hasn't responded. I know it's hard for him but this is ridiculous. Enough is enough already. Unfortunately, I am too sick to go today. I have to be careful with my immunity as well, so it's really difficult when I have bad days.
But, I just feel so bad for my daughter. She said to me today, maybe grandpa and grandma will come and surprise me. I smiled because I didn't have the heart to say don't count on it.
I'm sure my mom would give my dad a difficult time if he told her that he would drive with them today. I'm sure she sees that as an insult against her in her mind. But I'm left again wondering what is going on. I guess I'll just see what happens. Maybe he will just show up on his own to not create any conflict with my mom. It's just a shame.