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Originally Posted by Readytostop
Lots going through my head today...I talked to all of my sisters in one day. Way too much FOO... My one sister started T about a year ago...about 6 months after I did.... she can't remember most of the past... and her T wanted me to tell her what I remember... but I couldn't bring myself to do it
I have 3 real incidents that I remember and on involves my mother chasing her so she could beat her...
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Please consider going ahead and telling her. Having relatives tell me about horrifying things they remember my mother doing to me or around me really helped me to realize I am not crazy, and those weird dreams were actually memories.
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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions
I also reluctantly did some research on the meanings of stones - picked out my two favs which could fall into the category of "celebrating your body - BLECH", picked out a bunch of stones and jotted down some design ideas for Ts jewelry purchase.
I really have no interest at all in seeing T this week. None. Entirely emotionally detached. Actually, maybe not detached. Hateful. Not at T. Just feeling hate in general.
Anyway....nighty night folks. I'm hoping this migraine will be gone in the morning.
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Please read what I say in light of the fact that I LIKE you, and I am coming from a place of liking you and being frustrated FOR you. You DO NOT HAVE TO DO THIS. **** your T and his jewelry purchase. You have an absolute right to say NO. Just don't do it. Don't do it "reluctantly" and don't be hateful. Just say NO. No. I choose not to do this thing that I don't want to do and that is not good for ME. You do this to yourself ALL THE TIME. And YOU do it to you. YOU choose to keep doing things you are resentful about. And then you get migraines and cannot figure out why. The hatefulness and resentment, in my opinion, fuel the migraines and the horrible physical problems you have. It's time to take care of YOURSELF and just refuse to do things you feel resentful and horrible about.
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Originally Posted by stopdog
RTS - In my opinion -what husband does around porn is not because of you. He can blame you for his choices if he wants, BUT you don't have to accept that blame. (this is a boundary thing, in my opinion). You cannot stop what he or anyone else does really, just what you do.
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I agree with this entirely!
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Originally Posted by WikidPissah
Hi everyone. Must be something in the air, because I really want my XT too.
Really depressed. Really, really depressed. Want to go sob somewhere alone. Going to take off by myself after church. May have to kill mother.
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I am so very sorry you are feeling depressed Wikid.
Is there anything we can do?