Many thanks to everyone for commenting! I wish I could find someone I could have the kind of relationship with that some of you have. I can imagine that it would be wonderful. I'll bet I've been through at least half a dozen therapists though & they just ranged from okay to terrible! Perhaps it's me. But it is true that there are aspects of my life that I can never share with anyone. I would guess that this limits the amount of success that I can expect to achieve under any circumstances.