Well I would just find ways to make the day memorable for your daughter. Like a command performance at home for you and baby-to-be, since you couldn't go?

I hear that it feels like it's all crashing down on you, but it's not. It truly is in the past. You say you feel weak, but you SOUND strong, the more you talk about this way. Remember, they are HER limitations. We feel sorry for grandma, she can't help it, but we are going on.