(Ready) I am so sorry that you are struggling with these issues. My ex had a porn issue and when I found out it was very difficult for me to handle. I did a lot of self blame, had a ton of guilt and shame and it brought up lots of past childhood issues for me. It is so sad that your exT didn't handle it well. Knowing how much I was affected by this issue, I would hope that you could talk to your current T about it and I really hope you would get a better response.