So, the other day I went to this concert with this guy I met on another internet forum which I frequent. I've known him there for about 6 (almost 7) years now and have always been really close to him through there. Us meeting was bound to happen eventually and the concert was for a musician we both like, so it seemed like the perfect opportunity. After the concert, we went back to my dorm and I ended up having sex with him, which was my first time doing anything with anyone. It was amazing and I know that it was probably stupid and irresponsible of me to do that after just meeting him for the first time, but I don't regret what I did one bit.

But there are a couple of things that I just can't stop thinking about. For one thing, I'm not sure exactly what it meant for us, or if there even is an "us" to speak of. I know that he likes me and that this was more than just a physical thing, but I just don't know if this means we're in some kind of relationship or what. He said we'd have to do it again sometime soon and I agreed, but he lives two states away so it won't be able to happen very often. I'm just afraid to ask him about it because I don't want to scare him away by appearing desperate and clingy.

Also, I'm stressed out because I don't know how to tell my parents. They know I went to the concert with him, but I lied about where I know him from. As far as they know, he's just a friend from my college and I just went to the concert with him and nothing else. I don't know how they'd react if I told them the truth. Part of me feels that they don't need to know the truth, but then I also worry that if this thing between him and I is anything meaningful and does go anywhere, it will just get harder and harder to keep from them and they'll just be even angrier when they do finally find out the truth.

So what do you think I should do?