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Originally Posted by learning1
I hope this is not hijacking this thread, but I wondered if this ever seems manipulative or mean? I guess if he's nice to you after he tries to make you angry, maybe it wouldn't seem like that.
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It's not manipulative or mean in the slightest. He doesn't try to provoke me, just welcomes my natural anger when we have a miscommunication or misunderstanding. I may have chosen my words poorly. It might be clearer if I said his dearest wish is for me to get mad at him--so I can learn that getting mad at people is safe to do.