I really like visitor messaging on profile pages. I would like to be able to delete a post, or failing that if someone else deletes one I can get rid of the "post deleted" message.

I have a problem with flashing images. They make me nauseous, and so I like to get rid of them. Adblock doesn't apply to my visitor messaging, of course.

And while I'm here, well, a question - why on earth does the order of my displayed friends change constantly? I wish I had a choice, such as chronological, reverse chronological, or whatever. Currently, it seems to be "whatever."