Good luck with it. Do you know of anyone who likes their therapist? If so, perhaps that therapist could give you referrals. That is how I found the second one I go see. A friend asked her therapist if she knew any who were like x,y,a and the therapist called and talked to me then called me back with three names to try. I tried all three and stuck with one. It has worked out better than the one I found on psych today. The one from the referral is the one who I think does listen to me.