Sometimes very rarely but sometimes I actually want to try to talk to my H about things going on with me. But it doesn't take much to make that feeling go away... I started to tell my H something about how I was feeling (nothing to do with marriage or him or us) and he said "I hear you"... I don't know why but that shuts me down so fast...

what does that expression mean to you guys?


ETA: I asked him what that means to him... he said it means I hear what your saying but there is not much I can do to change/fix that... after 25 years of telling him that I don't want him to fix things for me but to just listen to me..you would think he would GET it...but he doesn't...