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Originally Posted by Readytostop
Sometimes very rarely but sometimes I actually want to try to talk to my H about things going on with me. But it doesn't take much to make that feeling go away... I started to tell my H something about how I was feeling (nothing to do with marriage or him or us) and he said "I hear you"... I don't know why but that shuts me down so fast...
what does that expression mean to you guys?
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Not sure Ready. It depends upon how he said it. Generally I would take it as someone trying to let me know that they were listening to me and I would take it as a positive expression. Of course it could also, if said in an exasperated or unpleasant manner, be taken to essentially mean "stop talking." Hard to know which way to take. sorry