Hi! I have read your story. I know you want to be hopeful about your future with him, but I have my doubts. Are you sure you love him? Do you need him to stay married to you because of finances?

Before you get too carried away with planning for him to get help and return to you, I suggest you talk to him. You two do have a terrible history together. Remember, too, that he has not been officially diagnosed. Unless he agrees to go into counseling with you, then I say, "Move on." If possible, I think you need to talk to a counselor about the situation. Okay?