Hello Inkblot,
I just wanted to let you know I have been around alot on the military base where I live and yes the men are men .... But the military is finally standing up to protect all !!!! I know this is not much comfort for you now , since you have already gone through this .....
I just wanted to let you know from personal experience they have finally stood up for the woman and realized they are here to stand by the mens side and fight as equals not to take there crap.....
Anyway I hope this helps... Some troubled1