Hello I hope you aredoing better at this time. I commend you on trying to help your aunt, but I think your aunt is depressed and needs help. Her mood is not normal, and I am sure she does not hatee anyone it could be the medicaiton she is taking and the drinking. the best advice I can give you is to let her have her space if you can, before it damages your self-esteem and your mental health. Your aunt may be going through menopause as well so then you are looking at 2 different issues to deal withs. I would just highly suggest cutting the visits short, and seeing if your aunt would like you to help her to get professional help from a counselor. Her behavior is nothing that you ahve done your aunt is just going through a lot of changes at this time in her life try not to take things too personal.. Take care soidhonia