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Originally Posted by Pinkie118
My boyfriend and I live together an have for the last 8 months and have been together a year and a half. I would love to and have said this to him, have sex every day. He will sometimes choose sneaking off to the bathroom and masturbating to porn instead. It upsets me and I've let him know. I don't have a problem with masturbation in general, but if he does this it means it will e longer before we have sex again. I don't understand why porn and masturbation are preferable to me. He knows I'll even look at porn with him. I love him and don't want to break up, but it also sexually repulsed me when he does this. I'd like advice on how to get over this.
Please don't tell me things like just get over it or leave or anything negative. I've heard all that, I want to stay with him I just want a way to stop having this issue.
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You definitely need to address this with your bf and get to the bottom of this. But idk I'd imagine it would just be easier..a lot of the fun of masturbation is that its a very self involved experience. You please only yourself, the way you want to. But sex is less simple. You have to communicate with your partner and tell them what you want. Some people aren't good at communicating their desires so they take it into their own hands (literally lol) Plus he'd have to ensure you're satisfied which makes more work..