Hi MOsman ~ I'm afraid there isn't anything you can do. This girl needs therapy badly, and until SHE makes the appointment and SHE goes to see the therapist herself, she's just plain on her own.

I'm sure she's aware that she needs therapy. And she must be aware that there's help "out there." If she needs a referral, all she has to do is ask her doctor for one, and he'll take care of that. In fact, you could talk to her and tell her to call her doctor and ask for a referral to a good therapist -- maybe that would put the idea in her head! (is she blonde? LOL -- sorry, just a joke)

I wish you the best. I hope she gets some help, and soon!! She sounds like she's pretty miserable. She really needs help, and I hope she gets it soon. god bless and please take care. Hugs, Lee