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Originally Posted by Got Java
I have to deal with this pain everyday now and Its brings me to tears and such heartache what happened between us. Its hurts more that I have to avoid this person all of this time because the pain is too much to bare to even see this person it makes me feel distressed and emotionally distraught to a point I cant function.
Does anyone have any idea what I should do?? I really need to make things right and I cant go on living with this guilt and pain I caused between us
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I think you are being too hard on yourself and whipping yourself needlessly. You cannot really know what the other person is feeling if they are not interested in communicating with you other than that they do not wish to communicate with you anymore, that is
their problem.
They could be angry, they could even be happy/relieved, they could be anything at all but what they are is based on their lives and outlook and doesn't really have anything to do with you. For all you know, someone else could have hurt them the day before you and they argued and the combined, set off by the other person, contributed more to their reaction to you than you, yourself did. They may be having their own spell at the moment and maybe they'll come out of it and want to be friends again, maybe they won't. But if you keep focusing on what you cannot know or do anything about, you will stay stuck and hurting and that would be more hurtful to you than anything you could have done to "cause" this person to not want to see you again.