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Originally Posted by bluedolphin92
He said we'd have to do it again sometime soon and I agreed, but he lives two states away so it won't be able to happen very often. I'm just afraid to ask him about it because I don't want to scare him away by appearing desperate and clingy.
Also, I'm stressed out because I don't know how to tell my parents. They know I went to the concert with him, but I lied about where I know him from. As far as they know, he's just a friend from my college and I just went to the concert with him and nothing else. I don't know how they'd react if I told them the truth. Part of me feels that they don't need to know the truth, but then I also worry that if this thing between him and I is anything meaningful and does go anywhere, it will just get harder and harder to keep from them and they'll just be even angrier when they do finally find out the truth.
So what do you think I should do?
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To him: do not make any forward-looking statements, but do make a short positive remark about the past. That won't hurt, won't make you appear desperate or clingy, and will make him melt.
To the parents: wait for now. You do not want to expend energy without cause.