I'm so sorry you're going thru this. Doing nothing and letting people not like,even hate you, is the hardest thing to do. You're not alone...my sister,uncle,cousin,and most likely dad are done with me because of what I did when I was manic. It's horrible and I can barely function, but I HAVE to let it go.
There won't be any reconciliation for me-hope there is for you. But we can't control it we have to accept the unacceptable.
Heidi