Hello there.

Have you ever tried talking to her, not after an argument, or during, but when things have calmed down? Perhaps too that you could suggest couples therapy? I think you both need to learn to communicate better with each other.

I think you did have a problem with the wood cutting and about not being made dinner. You admitted losing your rag. And it just turned into a fight. Think of it from her perspective too. She may have been better to cut the wood in the basement, but she was probably just thinking she was getting on with the job and that you'd be pleased. This did turn into a fight out of nothing really, and this is why I think you need to communicate better. Ie, if she told you a day before that she was going to cut wood, then you could've made yourself dinner the night before, and had reheats or something, and she could've put a protective sheet down. Problems solved, and no arguments.

To be told by someone you are sick of them by the way is very damaging. Even in the heat of the moment. Sorry to tell you off, but again, it all points to you both needing to communicate better.

Good luck...