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Originally Posted by Sadendings
Is this what therapists do? Suck you in and then, when you really care, lower the boom and say, no we can never have a real relationship? This is confusing. No wonder there are so many hurt feelings.
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My T says that we do have a real relationship, but it's different from other relationships. I think that most clients realize that a T is a T and it's unethical to have a relationship outside of therapy. But even knowing that, the transference happens, and it hurts worse than any feelings I've ever had in my life.