you have so much more reason to feel this way than i do, but i feel the same way. i actually just posted about it, haha...

i almost used your thread as a sounding board, so i'm sorry. i might post what i almost put on my own thread instead.

but i know how you feel, believe me. HUUUUUUUUUUGE hugs for you!!

as for those stupid comments, they just felt guilty or were just plain ignorant. i know how hard it is to not let it get to you, but try not to. try to drown out that negative voice as much as possible.

i tend to not read the comments on that sort of thing. i fear the negativity, so i don't allow myself to see them, so that if there IS anything negative, pffft on them.