Tokiwartooth, that's horrible of your nan. :\ Sounds like she has a hard time admitting and accepting her problems, and this shines when she ridicules you for yours. She needs to take a long hard look in the mirror. If your nan is elderly, there's a good chance that her lack of admittance or acceptance is because back in her day, mental health was fairly unspoken about and to some extent, I believe it was an embarrassment; something to be ashamed of. Times have changed.