I agree with the posts so far, and thanks for making this thread, ((( Tormented&Tortured))). It sickens me also, that women are too often treated as servants, weaklings, notches on a belt, or prey!!!

Dear Women:

(1) Empower yourselves. If a given "box" doesn't work for you, find one that does. Realize you have this basic right.
(2) Find your niche, and who cares if some people disagree with it?
(3) If the surrounding culture is failing you, don't be afraid to point out why, and offer solutions.
(4) Fight fair, but don't back down.

(I realized after writing this, that it is good advice regardless of gender).

P.S.: I feel strongly about this. I am male. If it is not appropriate that I posted on the Women's Issues forum, I will understand if this gets removed.