Thanks, Murray. I don't understand my T because she knows I have a lot of photos of my family on the computer. I think she wants it where I can see it all of the time, and I think, though I'm not sure, she wants it to be a photo of ME that I like. I don't know if it will help me not to google her, though. It's HER picture I want to see, not mine. It's in my mind, though. Her picture, her face. She's so right about the googling, though. It makes me feel depressed and discouraged.