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Originally Posted by artemis-within
Talking to t about my feelings about her has been the only way I've ever been able to get past them no matter what they were - they come and go and we talk about them as they come up - seems like the only feelings i'm comfortable letting myself feel are the ones for her because she makes it so easy to talk about them. Learning how to feel my feelings is a huge part of the work that I'm doing with her so this is a good thing.
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Thanks Arthemis,
I guess I am and never have been comfortable telling people I have feelings for them. It came up with my first t, she asked if I would tell her if I had feelings for her and I said absolutely not. I guess I am afraid of being rejected or ridiculed but everyone has those feelings, right?
Current t said when we have feelings and don't tell someone they echo in our mouths and get louder and louder till we acknowledge them and set them free.
Your t sounds great, I think it would be ok if I had someone safe like your t who was comfortable talking about them.
