So a little thing my T has done....the way the office is set up is that T can pick from multiple chairs to sit in..some further away from the chair I sit in and then there is one where it is directly in front of me. For a long time now T would switch which chair he would sit in whereas I always sit in the same place. I always felt more connected when he would pick the chair closer to me and less connected (or rejected?) when he picked one of the further away chairs. I've noticed that since we've been working on some deeply emotional things he has been picking the closer seat every session. It seems like a subtle reminder that he isn't going to pull away from my pain or something.
Maybe not as cool as those of you who got actual objects but it makes me feel safe