Hi,
I have been dating a wonderful man for the past 1.5 years. Shared interests, values, intellect, lifestyles, etc. However, we have very different energy levels and styles of social interaction and it's been quite a strain on our relationship. I tend to be a fairly energetic and playful personality, whereas he's quite low-key and serious. I easily end up feeling restless and bored, and he has a hard time keeping up. It can be exhausting for both of us to feel like I'm always dragging him along and he isn't motivated to fully participate. We're trying to resolve the issue by taking quite a bit of time apart so I can go out and be socially active while he relaxes at home, but I worry the issue will inhibit us from getting closer. Are there any other strategies to come to a compromise over different energy levels and social styles?