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Originally Posted by Perna
Too, what would you have liked instead? We cannot cart your mother to the "mad house"/hospital, no one can afford that and doing so would have impacted you negatively too, because as a child you would not have understood.
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Personally, I would completely have understood if my mother had put her children first and left my father. I would not have been upset if my parents had got divorced - in fact I repeatedly suggested it. I would not have been impacted negatively if my family had broken up. I would have understood. What I didn't understood was why they stayed together, why nobody listened to me, and why I was forced to live with people who were horrible to me.
Generally speaking, I've often encountered this myth that it's better for families to stay together. In my case, it really wasn't.
I'm sorry that anyone is in a position to post on this thread.
(((hugs)))