Are you newly single, and is that why you aren't comfortable with it? I know I was married and with my husband for 10 years and when I was first divorced I was incredibly miserable, for the exact reasons you stated.

Finally, after 3 years, and after dating here and there...I am finally happy with where I am right now. I have my hobbies, my dog, and I have found out how to relax and process my day on my own. I walk my dog right after I get home and that's a stress reliever for me...and really sets the tone for a relaxing evening.

Anyhow, I know what you mean though. My parents have been married for over 40 years and I think my mom truly believes I am lonely (or she would be lonely if she were me), but I'm not. I do have my moments but still. Overall, I'm happy doing my own thing.

And by the way, I LOVE gardening and yard work- I actually go to my parents on the weekend to visit just so I can get in my outdoor time