Our 34 year old son is getting worse again after the attempt he made to end it all. Now he thinks the answer is to move in with us away from the wife and four kids. I know, then, that there would be fighting on the phone and here, and she would, of course, be dumping the four kids off on us. I know that our marriage cannot survive this. We have had enough, and I can't deal with four kids one night a week and every other weekend. We only have three bedrooms and a small house. I am losing it myself today. Neither one of us slept last night at all and I am a wreck. I am going to talk to son today and tell him we cannot do this. I am just done for!!!