I met him august 2010, got pregnant with his baby the following month, then we started plaining our wedding, during this period, he was he makes big deal out of nothing and later apologize. That I even call off the wedding 3days to the wedding day, but he apologize again and I decided to let go and carry on with the wedding. After we got married I find out all he said he was (has) was was lie. He dosent believe I should contribute to anything thing before making decision on anything including our kids, finance. He believe his the man and that all has to be his decision, he use me as an entertainment by cracking jokes babout me to make our visitors laugh, we had sex on our wedding night and not until after 9months, his always not in the mood. When I saw thisn I decided to have another baby for him and get a divorce cos I don't want to have kids for diffent fathers. So I told him December 25 2011 knowing that am ovulating if he doesn't have sex with me I will go and throw his friend out of my house. Whith this, he did and that was the last time we had sex and we leave together as husband and wife. I use to raise the issue he make me feel like am begging him for sex. So I stoped and whenever we are having a discussion now he says; did your boyfriends ask you not to do this, did your boyfriends ask you not to do that" I just pretend I didn't hear what he said. Can't tell anyone about what am going through cause my best friend assually warned me with the way he was behaving before I got married to him. Now am tired of pretending to be married to him and want a divorce. Am I doing the right thing.
Ooh nothing I do is good or right to him from the begining of our relationship. His always putting me down and comparing me with other poeple that I don't no even his ex. Less I forgot I have caught him twice cheating which he didn't addmite to or denial. Pls help I need advice