So, that boyfriend and I, we have officially broken up and I have moved back in with my family..that's a whole nother story. My thread today deals with my incompatance in the relationship, and more specific, the dating world...Most of my adult life relationships have fallen in my lap without me actually "dating"..and at this point I'm not looking for a relationship...but there is a guy I like.
I've known him for three years because he used to come into my bar when I was a bartender. I've always thought he was cute, but we always held a strict platonic relationship, no flirting involved or anything....a year had gone by since we last saw each other until a couple of weeks ago, I ran into him at a bar in the town 20 minutes from here (where I used to bartend). His band was playing at the bar and once they wrapped up we got to talking, and a little more and I gave him my number before I left.
He called the following Tuesday like he said he would...picked me up on his motorcycle (he lives 30 minutes away) and we went back to his place....I was assuming a ONS and the next morning he dropped me off home. The following Saturday I went to his town to drink at the bars there with some friends, called him, he met up with us and we went back to his house where I spent the night and ALL the next day...
THe whole time we are together we cuddle, and joke...than this morning he calls me to tell me he will be in my town...by 5 pm I call him and he said that his plans got canceled so he's not coming to town but he'll be in town tomorrow. Now, my problem is, I'm starting to like him...I dont want a relationship...but I do want to keep this casual thing going....I just don't know how he feels about me....any guy been in this situation who can offer some advise?