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Old May 09, 2013, 05:44 AM
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Originally Posted by WhiteClouds View Post
Random thought. The tricky thing about transference and disclosing it to your clinician, it always seem to shift back to.. Those are your emotions, you made it up, it's all in your head. Anyone else noticed it? ....Nooo, maybe there is some attraction, connection there. The dangerous part is the clinician can easily state some psycho jargon putting it back on the client. Only for the purpose of protecting his job. There are so many dimensions to human interaction. Not only psychological. Spiritual, emotional, physical, sexual. You can not rationalize everything way. Some things are simply are.
It kinda bothers me how people seem to want it to be a fabrication of one imagination. smh I guess that is what they are taught.
Thanks WhiteCloud. You explained it very well. I don't know why we just can't talk feelings in therapy both theirs (T's) and ours. We give up ourselves but T gets to hide behind the "relationship is strictly t/client" line. No real feelings can be acknowledged by them. This is very painful for some us who need the love of their T. Go hide behind your cloak if that makes you comfortable. I'll never find someone who will be honest with me and I'm trying to come to grips with that.