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Originally Posted by Bedobones
Ya know... it's hard to describe. As I look back, I perceive that I've had mental health problems my entire life. But for the 1st 50 years or so, I was able to "keep the lid on." I'm sure people must have noticed that I was struggling. But no one ever said anything. After 50, & having a bout with cancer, I've just gradually gone downhill.
Outwardly I still function. I haven't held a job for a dozen years or so. But this year, I'm the president of our townhome association. It's not a terribly important position but I still have to function.
It's internally that my mental illness is gradually tearing me down. This is not any different than it has been all of my life really. It's more my ability to cope... to maintain control over it that has deteriorated. I've had 2 major suicide attempts, one just over a year ago. It's only through sheer force of will, & psych med's that I haven't tried it a 3rd time. 
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I read another post of yours and I can't help but wonder if maybe you feel you
have to be strong? When I was younger I felt I had to be strong and withstand anything (for reasons I won't go into here). Now I am willing to ask the help of others, admit when I am not strong enough and to just simply let some stuff go. It might be difficult to know the difference between aging and aging with mental illness. I don't see anything wrong with taking psych meds. You've given me a lot to think about, thanks. Courage!