Thread: T knows best
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Old May 09, 2013, 07:29 AM
sittingatwatersedge sittingatwatersedge is offline
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Originally Posted by monalisasmile View Post
I didn't even need to say anything. It was like t could see straight into my heart. She knew I was upset and afraid today, she looked at me and held her arms open and I went to her and we hugged for a long time. I broke down and sobbed for ages and she held me tight.
I never had a loving relationship with anyone, let alone anyone who understood me.
Afterwards I sat in silence and t just sat with me, she knew exactly what I needed and it felt so good.
I am so happy for you.

I have zero expectations that my T would ever do that. Encouragement is just not her thing... she walks a fine line between responding, and creating a dependency.
Yours doesn't seem to have any difficulty with that at all. I think it will be very healing for you!