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Old May 09, 2013, 11:21 AM
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MKAC i am so sorry you had to go through that. my T asks me that tink of question all the time now and i kind of think the same thing. sometimes i think a better way of asking is do you have any more thoughts on the particular subject.

maybe he wanted to check in and see how you were sitting and dealing with disclosing that infomation, or if you were having intrusive thoughts and having a hard time dealing with it.and things like that .

MKAC i don't think i could ever let my T in on that secrite of mine at all . you know you are brave . just thinking about it brings up all kinds of negative emotions .so i can imagine what you are going through. quick flashing thoughts about it and T knowing throught out the day. or maybe stomach turning reactions at times passing. feelings of shame ,etc.... and the list goes on. maybe these are what he is asking about.

as bad as it may feel for you i am glad your T is mindfull in has not wanting to cooperate in the silence conspiracy. even if it is hard to talk about .if he did it may never get talked about
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